Friday, May 24, 2013
Wednesday, May 22, 2013
Lupus rule of thumb: take time to get time
What was I thinking?
That’s what I keep asking myself as I reflect upon the happenings of the last three months. February, March and April marked an interesting time at Sara G. Enterprises. I was busy, busy, busy - first, with Pillbag and Despite Lupus business: establishing a new manufacturer, rolling out a new Spring line, traveling for speaking gigs, workshops, and gift shows, and setting up a handful of new vendors for both the Pillbags and the book. On top of that, managing the renovation took on a whole new meaning as we entered the final phase of the process, and keeping my health and wellness at the forefront became an even greater challenge from the (dis)comfort of our rental home. I think the motto of our small little rental goes something like this: Naps Discouraged.
Of course, I’m thankful that we’re lucky enough to renovate, and that we found the deal of all deals for a rental house. And I know what a blessing it is that my good health has allowed me to pursue my goals with my book and Pillbag businesses. But here’s what stumped me. I chose to carry on over the last three months WITHOUT an afternoon babysitter. I’ll say it again – what was I thinking?
That’s what I keep asking myself as I reflect upon the happenings of the last three months. February, March and April marked an interesting time at Sara G. Enterprises. I was busy, busy, busy - first, with Pillbag and Despite Lupus business: establishing a new manufacturer, rolling out a new Spring line, traveling for speaking gigs, workshops, and gift shows, and setting up a handful of new vendors for both the Pillbags and the book. On top of that, managing the renovation took on a whole new meaning as we entered the final phase of the process, and keeping my health and wellness at the forefront became an even greater challenge from the (dis)comfort of our rental home. I think the motto of our small little rental goes something like this: Naps Discouraged.
Of course, I’m thankful that we’re lucky enough to renovate, and that we found the deal of all deals for a rental house. And I know what a blessing it is that my good health has allowed me to pursue my goals with my book and Pillbag businesses. But here’s what stumped me. I chose to carry on over the last three months WITHOUT an afternoon babysitter. I’ll say it again – what was I thinking?
With an afternoon babysitter just a few days a week, I get
the rest I require, I get the work I need to get done, and I’m transformed into
a happy, healthy, balanced mother of two young lady bugs. Without the sitter,
I’m stressed, I’m distracted, and I’m unrested…none of which are ideal for
optimal lupus living.
So why did I let my babysitter leave me for her season of
softball without finding a temporary replacement? A couple of reasons. 1) Our
rental house is so small that, believe it or not, having a fifth person around
during nap time can sometimes be a bad thing. 2) It was an enticing prospect to
save a buck on babysitting at the same time that we were spending a buck (or
two) on our renovation.
Those things are both true – but I suspect the real
reason is because I just didn’t want to take time in my already short-on-time
schedule to find a replacement. I didn’t want to have to make calls, schedule
interview visits, rehash our routine again, explain my napping situation to
someone new, or figure out transportation and other logistics, just to have the
newbie not work out.
Note that we’ve never had a babysitter NOT work out. And I’ve
never had to conduct more than a few calls in order to score a sitter that
comes highly recommended. But I convinced myself that it was going to be too
much time and too much energy to make happen - and that my efforts were better spent
trying to play catch-up with the already limited time I had.
Basically, I didn’t want to take time in order to get
the time I needed.
I don’t think I chose wisely.
I should have realized that the long-term benefits of
finding a sitter would far outweigh the small amount of effort it would take to
do so. Looking back, it’s easy to calculate the hours of productivity lost, and
it’s clear that the emotional value of having a few hours to myself each day,
and the relief of not having to work after the girls went to bed would have been
immeasurable. But I never considered the benefits. I was just focused on the inconvenience.
There were plenty of times, when lupus was concerned, where I was too focused on the inconvenience of needing to do "X". Whether it concerned a doctor, a medicine, or a lifestyle factor that would allow me to better manage my disease, there were times I waited all too long before acting. So here are my parting words:
Have you been meaning to call the doctor about symptom “X”, but just can’t seem to find the time? Speaking from experience, I'm suggesting that you take the time. Call the doctor. Get your illness treated.
Have you been meaning to call the doctor about symptom “X”, but just can’t seem to find the time? Speaking from experience, I'm suggesting that you take the time. Call the doctor. Get your illness treated.
Have you been remiss about scheduling blood work, starting a
new prescription, or asking for a referral? Don't delay. Just do it today.
The effort it takes to make these things happen could save you a week’s worth of pain or suffering, and you could unknowingly be delaying treatment or forgoing results that could help you immensely. It could mean the difference between having a great summer, and one that’s not so great.
There. I've spoken. Now I'm off to call a babysitter.
The effort it takes to make these things happen could save you a week’s worth of pain or suffering, and you could unknowingly be delaying treatment or forgoing results that could help you immensely. It could mean the difference between having a great summer, and one that’s not so great.
There. I've spoken. Now I'm off to call a babysitter.
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babysitter,
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nap,
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Monday, May 20, 2013
Lupus Research Institute - Making strides!
Remember the webinar I did back in January, when I collaborated with The S.L.E. Lupus Foundation in NYC? They were also the Pillbag "Charity of the Month" for December 2012 and January 2013. As a coalition member of the Lupus Research Institute (LRI), they opted to send the donations, 5 % of every Pillbag sold during those winter months, to the LRI. I wanted you to see how your charitable contributions can really make a difference - so here's an update on the breakthroughs the scientists at LRI are making in lupus research:
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“This Lupus Awareness Month, we spotlight our scientists’ success because it is their talent, creativity and insight that is turning patients’ hope into reality,” said Margaret Dowd, President and CEO. “This is a time to recognize and celebrate the power of scientific innovation as the clear path to transforming the outcomes for lupus and autoimmune disease.”
Discovering how lupus attacks the brain. Researchers uncovered how the lupus immune system attacks the central nervous system (CNS), leading to current work on a new targeted treatment for neurological and psychological complications of lupus. Researcher: Betty Diamond, MD
Discovering how lupus harms the heart. A chemically altered form of ‘good’ cholesterol was found to contribute to circulatory system damage in lupus. This discovery led to new ways to identify and treat patients at risk of heart disease. Researcher: Bevra Hahn, MD
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Three cheers for the dedicated men and women doing their best to find a better way to treat, manage and diagnose lupus. Here's hoping for even more headway in the coming year!
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“This Lupus Awareness Month, we spotlight our scientists’ success because it is their talent, creativity and insight that is turning patients’ hope into reality,” said Margaret Dowd, President and CEO. “This is a time to recognize and celebrate the power of scientific innovation as the clear path to transforming the outcomes for lupus and autoimmune disease.”
Predicting
flare. Two new lab tests to predict lupus flare. By detecting the earliest
signs of an upsurge in disease activity the tests are designed to improve
disease management and accelerate the testing of new drugs in clinical trials. Researchers: Mary K. Crow, MD and Emily Baechler Gillespie, PhD
Predicting
heart risk. For the first time clinical research showed that a blood test
for homocysteine identifies lupus patients most at risk for cardiovascular
disease. Doctors now use the test to guide preventative treatment and reduce
the chance of life-threatening cardiac events. Researcher:Joan
Von Feldt, MD
Discovering how lupus attacks the brain. Researchers uncovered how the lupus immune system attacks the central nervous system (CNS), leading to current work on a new targeted treatment for neurological and psychological complications of lupus. Researcher: Betty Diamond, MD
Discovering how lupus harms the heart. A chemically altered form of ‘good’ cholesterol was found to contribute to circulatory system damage in lupus. This discovery led to new ways to identify and treat patients at risk of heart disease. Researcher: Bevra Hahn, MD
Transforming
kidney diagnosis. Researchers devised new non-invasive tests to diagnose
and guide treatment of lupus kidney disease as alternatives to surgical kidney
biopsies. Researchers: Chandra Mohan, MD, PhD;Chaim Putterman, MD; Joshua Thurman, MD
Discovering
new genes. Genetic breakthroughs uncovered new culprits in lupus – the
Toll-like receptors. Drugs that inhibit these proteins are soon to be tested in
lupus patients. Researchers: Silvia Bolland, PhD and Ian R. Rifkin, MD, PhD
Smarter
drug delivery. Using innovative nanotechnology to deliver drug doses
directly to disease-causing cells promises to make existing lupus treatments
safer and more effective. Researcher: Tarek Fahmy, PhD
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Three cheers for the dedicated men and women doing their best to find a better way to treat, manage and diagnose lupus. Here's hoping for even more headway in the coming year!
Labels:
Charity of the month,
pillbags,
research,
S.L.E. Foundation
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Friday, May 17, 2013
Making Lupus headway - The Lupus Initiative
On the heels of my post Wednesday, "celebrating" my dozen or so years of lupus by throwing a Pillbag Sale, and hoping for at least another decade of continued progress, improved treatment, and increased awareness and understanding of the disease, I'm happy to share news of a brand new initiative established to increase medical professional knowledge about lupus. Isn't THAT refreshing news?
TLI is led by the American College of Rheumatology in partnership with the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services’ Office on Women’s Health and Office of Minority Health and the U.S. Surgeon General. The initiative is in response to advocacy efforts led by the Lupus Foundation of America and other groups. I've personally known dozens of lupus patients across the country and around the world who have taken part in such advocacy efforts. Our voices have been heard, and the world is taking notice.
Lupites of the world - Welcome to the spotlight!
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LFA,
research,
TLI
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Wednesday, May 15, 2013
It's Lupus Awareness Month - let's celebrate with Pillbag savings!
May is Lupus Awareness Month, and it's time to celebrate! Now through Memorial Day, take 12% off your purchase at Sara Gorman's Pillbags. Just type in "LUPUSMONTH" in the discount code during checkout and save!Why "12%"? To represent the 12 years since I've been diagnosed with systemic lupus. Here's to another dozen years of progress and productivity in the world of lupus...Pillbags, patents, new treatments, and all!
Enjoy the savings, celebrate the month, and start carrying your medication in style!
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Pets reducing heart disease risk: Get Darwin a stethoscope!
Enjoy the snippets of the article I've included below, and click here for the entire article.
The American Heart Association (AHA) issued a scientific statement on Thursday saying owning a pet may help to decrease a person's risk of suffering from heart disease and is linked with lower levels of obesity, blood pressure and
cholesterol.
cholesterol.
A study of more than 5,200 adults, cited by the AHA, showed dog owners were more physically active than non-owners because they walk their pets. Other research has revealed the calming effects of pets, which are used in animal-assisted therapy programs.
Glenn H. Levine, the chairman of the committee that wrote the statement published online in the journal Circulation, added that the benefits are clear on cutting the risk factors for heart disease. But the studies are not definitive or prove that owning a pet directly causes a reduction in heart disease risk.
"What's less clear is whether the act of adopting or acquiring a pet could lead to a reduction in cardiovascular risk in those with pre-existing disease," he said, adding more research is needed.
Research has shown that the loyalty and love pets display can reduce stress, anxiety, depression and loneliness in their owners and increase their sense of well-being and self-esteem.
Research has shown that the loyalty and love pets display can reduce stress, anxiety, depression and loneliness in their owners and increase their sense of well-being and self-esteem.
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Monday, May 13, 2013
Door knobs and arthritis - the "twist" gets the boot.
So when Bernadette and I walked into the store, I requested to see their version of this:
| Option A |
| Option B |
But when Bernie and I started sampling the knobs in the store, in comparison to the levers, I realized that even the easiest knob required more torque than any lever out there. So I thought. And I thought some more. And I realized given my circumstances, choosing a lever made the most sense.
So I considered this one:
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| Option C |
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| Option D |
Same rules applied there, and since I was now cognizant of the need for a thicker handle (I'd actually forgotten about my "skinny writing pen" rant from a few years ago), I made sure that the handles for the cabinets had a smooth surface on the inside, a thickish girth for an easy grasp, and a nice line to match the look of the kitchen. The kitchen knobs had particular requirements, too - they couldn't be too small or too flat, because that makes it hard to fit my fingers around. I just want to be able to grab and go.
The kitchen cabinetry has only been "loosely selected", so you'll have to stay tuned for pictures to come. And the cabinets themselves are still scheduled to be installed the week after next. How exciting!
As a side note, in addition to the revelation I had on the knobs, spending time at my friend's fabulous new home also clued me into the fact that a large, single door on a refrigerator is too heavy and too hard for me to open. Too much suction or too little muscle - whatever the reason, I went with a nice French Door model refrigerator that opens and closes with ease. Thanks to GG for letting me sample hers for the last few years!)
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joint pain,
joint swelling,
renovation
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